If your significant other is anything like mine, he could care less about lingerie. On average my "teddy" stays on about 4-5 minutes and spends the majority of the time on the floor or tossed to the side! LOL..Although it doesn't seem to matter I still like to keep it hot and sexy! After all these babies my shape has changed drastically! Thanks to places like Torrid.com, Lanebryant and a few others, we have options. Being curvy is not the end of the world! While you are trying to shed those extra pounds find something you feel comfortable in to swoon your guy! Tunic style, boyshorts, mesh, crotchless, thongs...whatever floats your boat!! Find the color, size, and price that fits your style and work it!