All these are personal tips that have or have not worked for me. Results may vary. I am not representing any company or agency so if you look a hot mess in something I suggested thats on you. Sorry. You may totally disagree with everything I say or post, if so this blog is not for you. When I close a statement with IMO, that simply means 'in my opinion'... I hope my suggestions work for you, if not..good luck with someone/something geared to fit you and your style.